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Blogging through the Alphabet – P November 16, 2013

P is for Pity Party

I have a tendency to throw myself a regular ok maybe daily pity party….anyone with me? When my kids are pushing all my buttons and I can’t take it anymore I start the party…I usually start out with something like if my kids would only obey…if they would just mind their own business (like not getting up in the other brothers face or knocking him over)….then I get into nap time and oh my goodness they yell and scream in their beds and I can’t even remember how many times my 3 year old has gotten out of his bed or peed in it durning one nap time….it could drive a woman to insanity….I tell myself other peoples kids act better then this why did I get the crazy and non listening kids…then it hits me…I don’t need to throw myself a party and need to come back to reality that everyone’s kids do this or at least do something (and if your kid is an angel I don’t wanna hear about it lol).
My kids have a natural sin nature. So instead of getting upset with them I have to realize that I need to teach them the proper way to play or treat their sibling/friend/cousin. It’s my job as the parent to live out Christ’s love to them and teach and train them up in a way that honors God. It’s not my job to pout about why everything is going wrong I need to leave that to God to handle and do my best with what I’ve been given…now I’m not saying that I’m never gonna have another pity party but I’m going to work hard at seeing the positive and making the best out of every situation….so if you see me or hear me having a pity party just remind me (gently) that I need to get off my butt and get back to life.

What about you? Do you have regular pity parties?

Jessi

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Blogging through the Alphabet – O November 6, 2013

O is for Out of time

Seriously. I feel like as a mom with small kids that I spend my whole life taking care of one kids need and then next kids needs and then my husbands needs….I struggle with feeling like I’m all out of time for myself. Does anyone else feel that way? Well your not alone…I’m right there with ya sister…I as a mom I want to provide everything for my kids and my husband….I want them to have all their needs met. But getting from one meal to the next I don’t feel like I get to think…I feel like for me I’m completely out of time…so I’ve tried to find some time for me in all the craziness that I call my life…

usually I make sure to take some time for myself when my boys are napping and currently my 3 year old taking a nap is a hit or miss but none the less I still try and read a book or watch a little tv or take a nap myself.

I also take a hot bath sometimes after my kids go to bed to just be alone…because any mom knows that you don’t get to go the bathroom by yourself anymore…

And lastly on my hubby’s day off he watches the kids for the afternoon so that I can do whatever I would like to do (isn’t he a sweetheart!).

How do you give yourself a little bit of time?

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Jessi

 

Blogging through the Alphabet – N October 22, 2013

Filed under: ABCs,Baby,Boys,Family,home,Kids,Motherhood — jbuxton @ 7:35 am
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N is for Night time

I don’t know about you but for us, having a set routine at night helps my boys calm down and slow down and be ready for bed…we have followed babywise with both my boys and have found it to be very helpful and in there it talks about having a bedtime routine to do with your kids. Our night time routine varies a little for each boy but for the most part it goes like this:

Bath
Brush teeth
Pjs
Bible story
Hugs and kisses
Bed

This is pretty much what we do with our boys every night. And they are so set in their routine that the min we start it they start to yawn and they start rubbing their eyes.

It’s funny how something so simple as having the same routine makes our night that much easier.

Do you have a nightly routine that you do with your kids? What does it look like for you? If not you might consider trying it and see if it helps your kids wind down and mentally get ready for bed.

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Jessi

 

Blogging through the Alphabet – L September 29, 2013

Filed under: ABCs,Birthdays,Boys,Family,Life Experiences — jbuxton @ 7:40 pm
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L is for Late

My post is late because we have been celebrating my hubby’s birthday over here and well I wanted to share some of his gifts with you but if I posted on time then him receiving his gifts might be a little bit of a let down since I know he reads my blog. So there you go 🙂 now onto the birthday events and gifts….

We have shared a lot of laughter since I’ve know him and we just celebrated his birthday. My hubby turns 30 today. I wanted to share a few of the things we did for his birthday and are still planning to do 🙂

On Friday we celebrated his birthday with friends and family here and this was his invite for the party.

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I even got a pic of my 3 boys right before the party…

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Aren’t they cute!?

Part of Marc’s gift was this state art I made for him to put up in his office…

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I’m pretty sure he is really excited about it 🙂

And then lastly for his big 3-0 I’ve compiled 30 memories for him to get all throughout today (because today is his actual birthday)

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Yes I know the first one on the pile is 3 that is because he already has gotten the first 2 memories

So there you go. This is how we celebrated (and are still celebrating) my hubby’s birthday.

And now you know why I had to post a little late…. Also be sure to check out the other blogs that I’m blogging through the alphabet with….

Jessi

 

Baby Toes December 6, 2010

My little boy is almost 5 months old and I can’t believe that time has gone by this fast.  I have enjoyed every minute with him since he arrived in July.  Although some things have been rough: getting up the in middle of the night for feedings, all the diaper explosions, and the gas that makes him cry.  We have made it through everything so far and I wouldn’t have made it this far without my husband who keeps me grounded.  There are so many things that I adore about my son and so many times I look at him and I’m reminded how God has a plan because if it was my plan I wouldn’t be a mommy yet (don’t take this the wrong way I just wasn’t planning on have a baby till after Marc and I had been married awhile).  But when we found out I was pregnant the only thing I could think was I know God knows what He is doing so I just need to trust Him.  I know there is a reason that Reece was born in July of 2010 and I have learned to trust God’s plan even though I don’t know what it is.  So anyways I am amazed at how much my son looks just like his father.  I was looking at baby pictures of my husband and oh my goodness I, as Reece’s mother, might confuse the pictures if the colors weren’t different.  It’s funny how little things are so similar but one thing that is the same with Marc and Reece, their toes!  Its so cute, they have the same toes.  Reece’s feet are a mini version of his dad’s feet.  I love it.  One thing I prayed for while God was forming my son was that he would look like his daddy because I think his daddy is a very handsome man.  I love those baby toes!  These little toes have just recently been discovered by my son.  He loves them and is always trying to put his toes in his mouth.  It has been amazing to see my son learn about the world that God created and watch him learn about his hands and toes and how to roll over.  He brings so much joy into my life and I’m so thankful to God for bringing this amazing little person into my life.

 

 
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